What happens when a recalcitrant female is put across a man's knee? Obviously her bottom starts to smart, but the whole ritual is only partly about the pain. Indeed, if pain was the only desired end result then a punch or kick would be quicker and easier to dish out. No, what happens with a well administered spanking is that the girl on the receiving end receives her punishment in her mind just as much as she does across her buttocks. In fact what goes on in her mind is actually far more important than what happens to her bottom.
Probably the nicest aspect of a well administered spanking is the way in which the girl's behaviour is modified for some time after the sting of the palm has left her bottom. The reason for that is the sense of mortification that the girl feels having been placed over her man's knee, felt her skirt turned back and her panties lowered, and having been simply unable to do anything to prevent any of that happening.
There is nothing like a spanking to achieve that result.
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What is even more embarassing for her, is if the spanking is witnessed by somebody else. Particularly if that person is younger.
Yes, humiliation is a very important part of corporal punishment. Yes, witnessesses like all family members that gather to see a naughty women such as a wife, mother-in-law, daughter, aunt, getting a good spanking on their bare bottoms, witnessed by a husband, son, father-in-law, or uncle.
Talk about humiliation!. I was reading a letter sent in by a 24 year old British teacher who had been working in Australia. The plan was to stay with her uncle until she had enough money to get her own place. Unfortunately, she committed an indiscretion with one of the 6th form students and had been asked to leave. She was frightened of telling her parents who were funding here from home. But unfortunately her uncle found out.
He gave her an ultimatum. Either he'd ring up his brother-in-law, her father, and tell him what his precious daughter has been up to ie lost her job and in what circumstances. Or she could continue to live at his place while she looked for a new job. BUT she had to accept a punishment that he would give to his 15 year old daughter. When he told her it was a spanking across his knee, she couldn't believe her ears.
Reluctantly she agreed and was extremely embarassed to be spanked over her tight jeans. But not as much as when he ordered her take her jeans down. She said she was only wearing a tiny black thong. Shortly she was back across his knee with her thong around her knees. She said she cried with embarassment particularly when her cousin's 17 year old boyfriend poked his head around the door to see what the fuss was.
I do agree that the spanking is not only about the physical part, but also about the mental process.
And I have been told on more than one occasion, that once I have been subjected to a punishment, I do have a positive change in behaviour. And let me state very clearly - I have this knack to really earn my punishments...
But I also know what my emotional state is after a punishment. That I do feel humiliated, no argument there, but it is not only the humiliation that plays a role.
Not only have my bottom been exposed and spanked, but with it a part of my inner being was exposed.
And honestly, I rather would want to turn to him to feel safe again after he has spanked me,knowing that he understands that I am at my most vulnerable then. And that I need to know that that although he might not be impressed with my behaviour leading up to the punishment, the care and love he does have for me, has not been diminished.
But I can also say this very categorically - to me, my being spanked always will be a private moment between two people.
Yes, I suppose it will greatly increase the humiliation factor, if my spanking was witnessed by other parties - but that is all what I will remember, and unfortunately I think, I might not react the way, as described in the comments.
Emotions such as anger, distrust and resentment comes to mind. However, I also do acknowledge that every person is unique within themselves...spanker and spankee alike...and that everyone reacts differently...
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